sperlygirl

welcome 2010...

"Dream lofty dreams, and as you dream, so you shall become. Your vision is the promise of what you shall one day be; your ideal is the prophecy of what you shall at last unveil."  ~James Allen

ready or not - here it comes...

the christmas cookies are down to a scattered few, the decorations are in the process of being lovingly boxed up until next year, the holiday is drawing to a close, and tonight marks the night of fresh starts and new beginnings.

yesterday we spent the day in the hospital as kai had his surgery to hopefully help his ears. it was a long day and he was an absolute trooper. i had this gem of a book with me, and ironically, the chapter i found myself reading was 'worrying about your children'. it was quite powerful for so many reasons. this quote really stayed (and stays) with me - it's a quote i have had on my desk at school for many years but it felt more powerful yesterday.

"We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts we make this world." ~ Buddha

as i look forward to 2010 tonight, my heart is open with anticipation at all that she will hold. this year, i am participating in ali edward's one little word. after thinking long and hard the last couple of days on just the right word to project for 2010, it found me....FOCUS. this word has special meanings on so many levels. it perches on my heart. she will be my mantra as i walk into the new year tonight.

not one for resolutions, but i am one for throwing out the net to capture our wildest dreams - here is a listing of what i hope to focus on for myself in 2010 - wild dreams included: opening my own etsy shop for my photographs and artworks, starting (and keeping) a gratitude journal, a daily yoga/meditation practice - even if it's only a few minutes a day, a regular running schedule (thx santa for the nike+ipod!), mindfulness, practicing my italian, sewing this and this (ok kt, will need you on this one!), dusting off my knitting needles and learning something other than a scarf, showing my artwork, cooking on the weekends (am so thankful j handles this during the week - we eat so well because of him!), and giving back.

i am grateful for the kind words, comments, opportunities and friendships that have evolved from this blog. i am grateful for this little space to express myself and for so many of your blogs that i visit often and leave feeling inspired. thank you for all that you share. wishing each of you a wonderful new year and may it be full of laughter, love, friendship, and promise! buon anno! warmly, s

soaking in simple joys...

lazy, late mornings where we linger in pj's, strolls down to our favorite cafe for an afternoon treat, long lists forming mentally of all the dreams for 2010, creative pursuits and wishes formulating for the year to come, afternoons curled up with a cup of tea and a good read, late nights snuggled with a little babe nestled in my arms, squeals of delight from kai as he plays with each and every newly acquired toy or puzzle over and over again, those delicious moments of silence and tranquility that happen in fleeting moments throughout the day, long soaks in a warm tub that invites a busy mind and sore muscles with salts and aromatic blends, a long slow sip of a glass of wine as i savor each and every one of these precious moments.

(photo by j)

on the eve...

we are nearly ready to celebrate the season in our cozy little home. this season has been bittersweet (to be very honest).

sweet for so many reasons - like going to see kai's first christmas pageant at asilo. my heart walked up on stage dressed as a little shepherd. my eyes filled with tears as i watched him sing 'silent night' in italian and my smile beamed as he peered out into the dimly lit (and packed) audience to find our faces and wave at us all. i never knew my heart to hold so much pride, so much love, and so much gratitude for him having this experience with this community. sweet - for the string of dimple filled smiles ryder gives us all freely some with little giggles attached, and for how he stares and stares up at his big brother and watches his every movement. sweet - for the fact my mom is here with us and is helping a lot with all that is going on. and sweet - for the fact that ryder's mysterious sore has closed and although leaving a nasty looking scar (which we are hopeful will fade over time) we are thankful that he has finally begun to clearly heal.

bitter for the fact that my little shepherd boy has been fighting chronic ear infections and illness since september - being on and off antibiotics, not being able to hear many things, and will now have to have his adenoids removed and tubes put in his ears. bitter because we have good days and days where we are clearly sick and tired of feeling sick and tired. bitter because i haven't been prepared for the utter helpless feeling it is to watch your child feel sick and not be able to make them feel better. we are fortunate to have the care of a kind and patient doctor, and we know that these procedures will help to solve some of the problems. until then, i am crossing my fingers that santa has boxed up a lovely gift of good heath for us all to open.

so with all of that being said, as i told a dear friend earlier - it makes it a bit more challenging to seek out the magic in the season, but all the more important. we may be quiet here the next few days as we nestle in to share the warmth and love of family and friends - those that are here and those that we will connect with in some way. sending each of you warm smiles and wishes for a lovely holiday and a new year that is full of promise!

magical...

there is something so very magical about this time of year. you can feel it when you are out and about, and you can feel it as a whisper in your soul. even the light seems to cast a more inviting glow. i love all the preparations that lead up to the holidays. the scurrying, the baking, the lazy mornings, the afternoon walks, the catching up with family and friends, and the simple slowing down of the world a bit. this alone does wonders for my spirit. not to mention there is all this possibility and anticipation lingering in the air. i can't help but look forward to the new year and dream of what her 365 days will hold. it truly is a magical time of year and not just because of our traditions and holidays, but because of the ability to take stock of the blessings in my life, to take the time to appreciate the simple joys that imprint on my heart, and to marinate in the reflective moments which seem to emerge. i hope that you too are enjoying bits of the same.

a blanket of white...

kai told me he dreamed of building snowmen the other night ... and then we awoke magically to a dusting of snow! the first snow he's ever seen and the first this area has seen in about 5 years. and although it isn't enough to blanket the ground; it is enough to build some whoppin' snowballs (and freeze the washing machine!).

oh how i wish i could bottle up the giggles and laughter that took place as he and j had a impromptu snowball fight on the way to the christmas pageant at his aslio (preschool).

so since laundry is out of the question, looks like we'll all have to snuggle up with a warm hot cocoa topped with lots of snowy marshmallows !

**a classic to celebrate with**

simply, don't forget...

reaching for the finish line -- that's what i am feeling these last few days before the holidays. still adjusting to being back at work full-time, navigating the last few days at school with kiddos before the break, worrying about kai and these chronic ear infections he is battling upon which today discover he has strep...like a glimmer of sunshine, in the midst of all of this, a dear friend reminded me, 'don't forget to take care of you - meditate, do your yoga, run, whatever it is you need to do to take some time for yourself.' funny how simple this advice sounds but on so many levels how profound it truly is.

it is so easy to take ourselves off our to-do lists in order to take care of everyone else in our world - but then when are we able to recharge or replenish our wells? so i am thankful that my mom is here right now and able to offer just the right t.l.c for a little boy who is under the weather (and give j a break as he too seems to catch whatever illness kai battles) and i am trying very hard to be sure to include myself on my ever-growing to do list these days...even if it's just for a few moments of silence. and i wish the same for you...

(above photo by j)

mondo beyondo part one...

i am joining andrea in her mondo beyondo journey here...

1. What do you want to acknowledge yourself for in regard to 2009?(What did you create? What challenges did you face with courage and strength? What promises did you keep to yourself? What brave choices did you make? What are you proud of?)

2009 allowed me to create our son, ryder, and welcome him into the world. i faced a pregnancy that had a few bumps along the way when i developed gestational diabetes and had to eliminate sugar from my diet and introduce insulin - it was here i found a renewed sense of strength and courage. in the realm of possibility of things that could have come up during a pregnancy, this certainly wasn't alarming, but it did require that i stretch out of my comfort zone and rely on inner strength at times. i promised myself that i would trust the process (and my incredible doctor) with this pregnancy and birth and i did just that. i am so proud that ryder was born before that epidural kicked in - always was curious what a natural birth would be like and now i know and can say that as soon as ryder met the steady hands of the midwife, i had a smile on my face and was completely full of joy from the entire process (i will also be truthful and say that the process itself wasn't necessarily easy or joyous but in hindsight i relish every life altering moment of it).

2. What is there to grieve about 2009?
(What was disappointing? What was scary? What was hard? What can you forgive yourself for?)

i think this is an on-going forgiveness - for not being able to juggle all the things i wish i could. i realize this is an impossibility and now i simply strive for doing what i can and doing that well while recognizing, breathing in, and savoring the simple details and joys in my life that can so often times (and sadly, so easily) be overlooked. what is hard? the realization that i cannot 'do it all' and allowing myself to be ok with this.

3. What else do you need to say about the year to declare it complete? Okay, the next step is to say out loud, "I declare 2009 complete!" How do you feel? If you don't feel quite right, there might be one more thing to say...

i can declare 2009 complete - and be forever grateful for the gifts and lessons she provided me in her abundant 365 days. i feel i began 2009 as one person and close the year as another - a bit braver, a tad stronger, a bit more wide awake, more creatively thirsty, more willing to leap, and most importantly - more full in my heart.

The final step is to consider your primary focus for the year to come. What is your primary intention or theme for 2009? Is it the year of joy? the year of self-care? the year of partnership? Stand up and say it proud, "2009 is my year of...."

2009 is my year of birthing into this world not only my son, but a stronger spirit, a braver heart, a more solidified creative vision and a more realistic and gentler conscious.

to be heard...

i had been thinking of the importance of 'being heard' lately and then my friend, beth, posted this and i realized the sheer magnitude it holds for us all. sometimes all it takes to nudge you out of your comfort zone is to simply be acknowledged by another.

it's long been my philosophy as an educator, that children simply want to be heard - not just listened to - but actually heard. isn't that so true for us all? we long to be heard above the static of the everyday, heard through the rambling tones of conversations, and heard around the clamor of everyday life. this video (and this project) reiterated that dire need in us all. too often we walk through our lives caught up in our own lives and we do not realize the ripple and wake a simple gesture or act of kindness will leave for another. i challenge you to open your heart today, this season, to another and take a moment to really hear them - and in doing so - leave a wake of magic behind you.

focusing on a few simple joys...

it's been a long week and in some ways a hard week - but i am pausing right now with hopes of re-shifting my thoughts a bit...

i am thankful to my friend, beth, who made this lovely blog banner for me. i love how it seems to capture so much of my world that i hold so dear. beth, you have a beautiful artistic eye as a photographer and a designer. thank you for taking the time to create such a pretty banner!

other simple joys i am choosing to focus on today~

i smile every time i look at this photo strip we took while in dc. our pics escalated into 'pirate faces' which seem to be all the rage around our house these days! aaaaaarrrrrgggghhhhh

the peace of mind i feel during a run

corn chowder and corn bread on a chilly night

a warm cup of spicy tea

a letter from my grandmother

the wonderfully supportive and encouraging community i have found through this blog - i am so thankful for the connections and friends that i have discovered along this path